What is wrong with some people anymore!


I was on social media when I ran across a tweet between a disappointed fan and NBA Boston Celtics star Isaiah Thomas so I had to check it out. Isaiah was recently in the news and not necessarily all good news. His 22 year old sister Chyna was killed in a car accident and he was criticized for playing in the playoff game and crying!

The man just lost his sister and everyone and their mother is talking shit yet through his tears and his strength, he scored thirty plus points even though they lost that game. How insensitive can you be about someone going through a tragedy like that!

I also read on social media that he didn’t travel with his team for a Game on Friday and some fans became outraged and one in particular tried to drag him for it.  Saying that he bought tickets for his son and that Isaiah was his favorite player.

Isaiah and the fan exchanged words on twitter  according to this tweet. See link below. Celtics’ Isaiah Thomas lashes out at disappointed dad on Twitter http://nydn.us/2nAzFtc

Now I don’t know about you, but I probably would’ve responded the same. I can understand that the fan was upset but you have to show empathy for someone going through tragedy. I thought it was insensitive for the disappointed fan to respond that way.  Isaiah was a lot nicer in his response than I would’ve been!


I would’ve gone for broke letting him have it to the point that he probably wouldn’t be come back for anymore. But I’m not a celeb so the outcome may have been different lol. This situation just pissed me off and I couldn’t sit back without commenting.

Isaiah Thomas, you keep doing you and I’ll keep being a fan. Don’t let petty, insensitive ass people bother you because have a lot of people supporting you. Stay positive and productive Isaiah!

                                              Until next time…with Chocolate on top!

Friendships has many facets, just like anything else!

Here are some of the emotions that myself and my friends have experienced throughout our friendship!

When we’re going through relationship issues with a spouse and your BFF IS ALSO YOUR CONFIDANT:

How in the ham sandwich did this happen on my watch…not that you were really watching for this outcome!


Usually when you’re feeling good about yourself and think that there’s no wrongdoing on our part in the relationship…and least you feel that way at the time!


This when you’re enjoying a little “me time” and not giving a what about anything but your own self preservation and peace!


Too much fun until things get real!



When y’all agree on more than one thing!



When your BFF tells you something that blows your wig back…what!

What is with people being rude! And I don’t take it personally!

Its not ok to be rude to your friends drunk or sober! At the end of the day its all about unity not division. I know that there are times when I have “round table discussions with my real friends and things go awry! However, we usually work it out and stay all good…until death do us part!

Later in life I decided to re-evaluate all of my relationships, friendships, and even associates are important in this sweeep lol!

At any point I can feel jealous about my friends not spending time with me but spend alot of time with their other friends and not knowing them is two issues that we havent really talked about and then you cancel on me…biaaach please! Not to mention that I havent seen you for a while, Girl bye!

I completely understand the frustration that may occur in ’tis situation but you have to give a person a chance to explain there actions too. Sometimes, circumstances dont allow for someone to be there and sometimes its hard for the other person to understand that. Hey, were not perfect or the world would be boring!

                                     

Ive learned not to ale (take things personally) and love “everyone” no matter what because “everbody” needs Love!




Until next time…with Chocolate on top[!

I’m removing my implant after reconstructive surgery…Not healthy!

I might sound crazy but beauty is not only skin deep, but knife deep sometimes! Let me say this….reconstructive surgery is not always the best choice for some after a mastectomy let alone a double mastectomy!


Nobody talks about the aftermath of breast cancer that depicts on your health and financial means! I try to wear a smile no matter where I am because I’m happy to be alive!



                                         Until next time…with Chocolate on top!

Keeping it 100!

This has not been a good week…my Uncle Sonny passed away last night, 14 days after his birthday! I’m sad:(  I’m speaking honestly…I have no money to go home to the funeral!

I just struggled to pay rent and I didn’t even make it all I was $10 short…but I work tomorrow morning so I’m sure I’l make the $10 but I think that they’re going to file an eviction notice on me!

I’ve been almost ten years and I love my place but everyone’s got a job to do! I get it but I had issues this month! My car broke down (alternator $$295.04) Rent due shortly after I just didn’t know what to do! I at least paid 90% f my rent.

If I get a court date I’m going to be a little salty but hopefully the judge will see that I’m only missing $10 and throw that ish out! I’m just keeping it real because too many times people hold things inside and it it’s not a good thing! Stay tuned for updates on this story!


Thinking positively!

Until next time…with Chocolate on top!